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by Mum61
Wed Mar 16, 2016 9:39 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: New here, lost my husband 2/13/2016
Replies: 1
Views: 1094

Re: New here, lost my husband 2/13/2016

Dear Jen, it breaks my heart to hear your story as it is my story as well and I know exactly how you and your children must be feeling. It has been 2.5 years for us already, this is like a huge wave that comes and goes however I just want you to know that it will get better, you and your kids will g...
by Mum61
Wed Jul 29, 2015 5:10 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: My Introduction
Replies: 3
Views: 1084

Re: My Introduction

Hi Pamela, I'm so sorry for your lost and I can feel your pain... the same happened to us 2 years ago, my son found his dad in similar circumstances. There's no pain like this, nothing that people can say, nothing to compare it with... no one will understand if they haven't been through the same. Lo...
by Mum61
Sun Jul 26, 2015 7:23 pm
Forum: Venting
Topic: How long will this last?
Replies: 3
Views: 2481

Re: How long will this last?

“Just when you think, ‘Maybe I’m going to make it,’ you’re riding down the road and you pass a field, and you see a flower and it reminds you. Or you hear a tune on the radio. Or you just look up in the night. You know, you think, ‘Maybe I’m not going to make it, man.’ Because you feel at that momen...
by Mum61
Sun Jun 21, 2015 9:06 pm
Forum: For Siblings
Topic: Just lost my brother
Replies: 3
Views: 2289

Re: Just lost my brother

Hi Zuessjune, I'm so, so very sorry for your lost and I can feel your pain so deeply. My husband ended his life nearly two years ago and I can tell you we are still struggling every day, this comes and goes like a huge wave but we are much better than those early days. Having a very close, loving fa...
by Mum61
Tue Jun 16, 2015 5:14 pm
Forum: Newly Bereaved
Topic: How do people handle the spot where the event occured?
Replies: 16
Views: 9361

Re: How do people handle the spot where the event occured?

A month or so after it all happened I walked to the funeral home, I needed to smell that smell... the chemicals and all.... It's on the second floor of an office building, went up and the smell was all over the steps, it was closed and I stood by the door for a while filling my lungs with that smell...
by Mum61
Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:24 pm
Forum: Newly Bereaved
Topic: How do people handle the spot where the event occured?
Replies: 16
Views: 9361

Re: How do people handle the spot where the event occured?

My oldest son found his dad hanged from the lounge door of our house. We just couldn't cope staying there and went to stay with friends until we found another place. The first time we went back, two days after my husband was found, my other son took the door off and burnt it on the back yard, as wei...