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by Hurt
Sun Jan 04, 2015 10:50 pm
Forum: Newly Bereaved
Topic: 2 months today
Replies: 4
Views: 1796

Re: 2 months today

Hello, I'm sorry for the loss of your boyfriend. I know this is a little late but I truly am sorry. I'm sure you are still grieving and missing him. If you are still around this forum respond back. Would love to know how you are doing.
by Hurt
Sun Jan 04, 2015 10:44 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: My Brother & My Mama
Replies: 1
Views: 995

Re: My Brother & My Mama

Kaysei I'm so sorry for all you and your family has been through. Having one family member leave by suicide would be way too much. I hope you will keep a close eye on your dad and not leave him alone. This may be more than he can handle. We only get one set of parents, one left by her choice and you...
by Hurt
Sun Jan 04, 2015 3:56 pm
Forum: Venting
Topic: Time lost
Replies: 2
Views: 1650

Re: Time lost

It's a work in progress. Counseling, anti depressants, talking with others, but mostly to not have my life defined by his actions. I miss him so much and still love him more than anything but I have to learn to live my life without him. He will never be forgotten, but I want my life back or somethin...
by Hurt
Sun Jan 04, 2015 3:48 pm
Forum: Sons and Daughters
Topic: I was 5
Replies: 1
Views: 1296

Re: I was 5

You know it's hard to tell what was going on with him other than he was in a very dark place and saw no way out. I'm sorry you missed those father/daughter moments but you or someone stepped up to fill that void. Sounds like you have become a wise young woman with a true understanding of what it mea...
by Hurt
Sun Jan 04, 2015 3:36 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Talking about suicide is difficult, but beneficial
Replies: 1
Views: 773

Re: Talking about suicide is difficult, but beneficial

If there was one thing good that came out of Dad's suicide it was that I became more educated on it and I plan to work more with a suicide prevention program in the future. I too feel like a part of me left with my Dad and I want that back, and my life back. It will take some time and work, I know. ...
by Hurt
Sun Jan 04, 2015 3:32 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Simons struggle.
Replies: 4
Views: 878

Re: Simons struggle.

So sorry for your loss.
by Hurt
Sun Jan 04, 2015 3:28 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: I am not like any of you. There is no one who could understa
Replies: 2
Views: 1111

Re: I am not like any of you. There is no one who could unde

This is a sad story, as most of them are. I think anyone who has lost someone by suicide can feel the pain of others so much deeper. We know the depth of the pain, the far reaches of this pain, the "whys" and "what if's" that we go over and over in our heads. It's hard to understand and accept. Thei...
by Hurt
Sun Jan 04, 2015 3:19 pm
Forum: Memories
Topic: The Velveteen Rabbit
Replies: 1
Views: 3928

Re: The Velveteen Rabbit

John we don't know if it would have changed anything. We often get stuck in the "what ifs" and they can drive you crazy if you let them. I think that was so sweet of you to get the book and read it to her. You are a good man. I'm sorry she left you and hope that you are getting some help with your h...
by Hurt
Wed Oct 15, 2014 10:43 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: my boyfriend commited suicide 12 days ago
Replies: 4
Views: 1203

Re: my boyfriend commited suicide 12 days ago

Oh wow. Can't imagine all the emotions you are going through right now. I'm glad you are okay, or still here with us. Sounds like he had some issues that needed be dealt with professionally. I'm sorry for your loss but glad you longer live in fear of harm or the unknown. Take care.
by Hurt
Sun Oct 12, 2014 11:57 pm
Forum: Venting
Topic: Suicide by drowning
Replies: 7
Views: 6496

Re: Suicide by drowning

See that's what is strange, lots of times there are notes, especially when they leave on good terms. Like he didn't leave because of you guys fighting, lost his job, or something like that. You guys were okay when this happened...right? I'm sorry, if I were in your shoes I would want some answers. B...