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by lainie
Sat Nov 29, 2014 7:36 am
Forum: Newly Bereaved
Topic: Parents made a suicide pact, mom survived.
Replies: 6
Views: 2869

Re: Parents made a suicide pact, mom survived.

Dear Jay..I am so glad to read that you are doing a little better. This time will give you some strength before the waves hit again. As time goes on the waves will stay out a little longer each time. I lost my son 6 years ago and the waves roll in still when I least expect them..but you learn to liv...
by lainie
Wed Jan 15, 2014 10:02 pm
Forum: Fathers and Mothers
Topic: Need advice from parents of suicide...
Replies: 4
Views: 2243

Re: Need advice from parents of suicide...

Hello Lauren..I am so sorry for the loss of your boyfriend. After reading your post you might consider talking to his Mother And asking her how she feels about you visiting..is it too often..does she need some space, etc...and just be open with her about how you are feeling. Grieving is so hard and ...
by lainie
Tue Jan 14, 2014 11:22 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 2
Views: 469

Re: I don't know what to do

Dear Meghan..I am so sorry you have lost your friend to this horrid disease. Please know this was not your fault. We all here look back and think "if I had only known"...oh, how many times have I thought that in he last 6 years..but is is just part of our grief. I am glad you have found this forum.....
by lainie
Tue Jan 14, 2014 11:14 am
Forum: Fathers and Mothers
Topic: Trying to be thankful but it isn't easy to do anymore re.
Replies: 5
Views: 1937

Re: Trying to be thankful but it isn't easy to do anymore re

Hello everyone..I have not posted or been on line in a while. It will be six years in April that we lost our son. Some days I feel like it just happened..others I seem to be OK..there is no rhyme nor reason to grief..it is what it is, and I never know. In order to self preserve I stay busy and try t...
by lainie
Wed Sep 18, 2013 9:36 am
Forum: Fathers and Mothers
Topic: Constantly searching for a connection to my son
Replies: 30
Views: 7703

Re: Constantly searching for a connection to my son

Dear Jimsmom...I could have written your post...same feelings..same questions..your Jim and my Brandon sound like the same...I will never understand how this could happen..except for the meds..I know suicide is the number one side effect to many..my heart reaches out to you.. Lanier Brandon's Mom Mo...
by lainie
Fri Sep 06, 2013 9:09 am
Forum: Fathers and Mothers
Topic: It never gets easier..it just gets different!
Replies: 4
Views: 1564

Re: It never gets easier..it just gets different!

Grief never ends but it changes. It is a passage, not a place to stay. The sense of loss must give way if we are to value the life that was lived..author unknown..

Lanie
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by lainie
Tue Aug 27, 2013 7:14 am
Forum: Fathers and Mothers
Topic: It never gets easier..it just gets different!
Replies: 4
Views: 1564

It never gets easier..it just gets different!

The loss of your child never gets easier..it just gets different...very true words!
by lainie
Tue Aug 27, 2013 6:42 am
Forum: * This Month *
Topic: Happy Birthday my beautiful son...
Replies: 5
Views: 2738

Happy Birthday my beautiful son...

At 6:38 this morning ..39 years ago God blessed me with a beautiful baby boy..who grew up to be a fine man..loving, kind,giving..wonderful son, brother and friend. We all miss you every minute..every day and carry you with us wherever this life takes us..love you more my sweet son!
by lainie
Sat Aug 24, 2013 8:01 am
Forum: Inspiration
Topic: Today I am LIVING because I...
Replies: 308
Views: 71768

Re: Today I am LIVING because I...

Hugs to you Blossom...lanie
by lainie
Sat Aug 24, 2013 7:53 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: rollercoaster ride
Replies: 6
Views: 619

Re: rollercoaster ride

Dear Lyn..the waves roll in and roll out...when you least expect them...but they will become farther apart over time... C Marie..you are right on...I believe my son also was gone before he was gone..he was so sensitive and loving..the illness took his brilliant brain away from him..if he had been hi...